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Old 02-01-2008, 09:32 PM
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Default Marrying within your own religion

Im sure we all have a heard of this or come across it, What do you think of it?

Do you think its right or wrong, would u marry outside your religion and what do u think of people who say that they will ONLY marry within their own religion?
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Old 02-01-2008, 09:35 PM
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Default Re: Marrying within your own religion

well I personally don't think anything is wrong with that.
Some people are really religious so they would not marry anybody outside of their religion.
but what I think when people start saying "marry within your own caste" . then it gets over the limit no offense.
I think it would be much easier then for the children and maybe also for the rest of the family. So the children won't have to be confused on to what religion they should follow. But I don't think there's anything wrong with it to marry someone who's got a different religion when you love and have a mutual understanding between each other.
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Default Re: Marrying within your own religion

Being a muslim, you are allowed to marry people of the book. If you dont want to consult your religion, then its your decision.
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Old 02-01-2008, 09:47 PM
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^^well yeah, if I was to marry, then I would choose someone of my own religion.
But I was just saying in general.
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Default Re: Marrying within your own religion

I am from a conservative family. Ever since I was a child I have been bestowed with religious mantras. One of them is marrying someone fromm the same religion. My parents have specially emphasized this fact about life.

As for me, if I am marrying someone then it would be like going against my family. I am not really sure if I want to do that or maybe I am not really mature to make that decision.. I dont know ...
I am not really old enough to get married right now but I do get phone calls from my family, who are desperately hunting the right girl for me....ofcourse same religion..oh ya same caste also...ya it does get weird
i know marriage is about sharing love....but marriage outside th religion requires more understanding. And I dont think I am ready for that
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neva thought abt this issue, buT AS A child i used to dream of marrying Prince William
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Default Re: Marrying within your own religion

no such thing.

i will mary the person whom i am in love with, like and find perfect..whatever his religion is..doesnt matter.
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Default Re: Marrying within your own religion

do tennagers like us assume that parents would understand over time if we marry someone outside our religion??? the question is mainly directed towards religious, conservative families like mine?
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Default Re: Marrying within your own religion

^^well if you are talking about religous, conservative families then I don't think they would unless you get your love converted into the same religion as you.
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Default Re: Marrying within your own religion

@ all : well if your parents want you to marry someone from youre religion, then simple do as they say.
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Old 02-02-2008, 12:22 AM
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Default Re: Marrying within your own religion

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@ all : well if your parents want you to marry someone from youre religion, then simple do as they say.
yeah, thats exactly what I will be doing.
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Old 02-02-2008, 01:18 AM
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Default Re: Marrying within your own religion

i personally do not think that there is something wrong in marrying someone who is not following the same religion as you...but those who think that it is wrong will hardly change their mind...
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Default Re: Marrying within your own religion

Ya, there is nothing wrong with marrying someone outside of your religion as long as you love that person and have a decent understanding between you. However, there is also that family issue that comes into play. Will your family approve? How would they react etc.

For me, personally i would prefer to marry someone within my religion, but you never know, i might fall in love with someone lol..
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Default Re: Marrying within your own religion

if i marry sum1 outside my religion
i will be outside my home
forever

my dad would shoot me to death

lol

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Default Re: Marrying within your own religion

well being a muslim i wud say that we r allowed to marry people out of religion , but personally i wud prefer to marry someone who is muslim
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