Best thing .. dont get married .... jump around with a few relationships .... and move ahead .. you'll find many more along ... heheheh lololo

@topic ... hmm i think marrying sum 1 outside the religion on love basis is kewl ... but them if an offspring pops out [hehe lol "pops out"] then that popped persons religion will be a huge dillema .....if one wants to get married and settle down .... then similar religion is suitable ,,,, rest its up to the persons wish....

As for me ,,, i am nit gonna get married and kill my freedom ... i am azaad panchi .... and will fly around from one dal to another and another as necessary ... and this world is full of beautiful trees and millions of dals ... all waiting .... to be ....!!!!

BTW i am muslim.....!!!!
(SAW)Sparko Out!!!

THE BOOK ? QURAN NO BRO QUARAN TEACH US IF U LOVE A HINDU GIRL & U BOTH WANT TO MARRY THEN TEACH GIRL THAT WHAT IS ISLAM IF SHE WANT TO BE A MUSLIM THEN U CAN MARRY & U BOTH R MUSLIM NO IF SHE DOES'NT ACCEPT THIS TO BE MUSLIM CONDITION THEN U CAN ALSO MARRY BECOUSE ALLAH,BHAGWAN SAB EK HI HAI SAB USSAY ALAG ALG NAAM SE PUKAARTE HAIN.

I THINK U CAN MARRY ANYONE U LOVE & I M GONNA MARRY JESSEY MAIN PYAAR KARONGA AUR WOH BHI

I Can Marry Any Gal..

Falling in love is alot easier than falling out of love. Love happens instantly, but can break just as fast. One thing that is certain and constant in life is that your parents love you all through your life because you are a part of them. They have immense wisdom, and what they say is for your own benefit. Parents love for their children is the essence of "altruistic love", a form of love that is pure without any demand or return.

Parents have alot of dreams about their children, and one of them is to see their children get married and live happily. Now marriage is not just about you. It involves your and your spouse's parents. It is also a unification of you and your spouse's parents. It is important that you as well as your and your spouse’s parents get along with eachother well, as there will be problems later if this fails to occur initially (trust me on this one; for ref see meet the parents).
Religion is a likely obstacle for intermingling, expecially if parents are traditionally conservative. I kept this in mind when I got married. It would have been selfish on my part to marry someone non-muslim, as my parents would have never approved of it. It would mean choosing my life partner over parents, a situation that is very messy. It is not surprising that alot of traditional desi families disapprove of dating (a non-muslim). It serves as deterrent for the situation I mentioned above.

I know…it's very hard not to fall in love, but I think rather than creating a mess down the road, my advice is to stay out of trouble to begin with. I will be a parent one day, and will follow the advice my parents gave me. I know we are all human beings and can’t restrain our feeling....but use discretion. As a parent I hope that my child doesn’t marry a non-muslim.

Love only happen once... the rest is just life.

Do what your heart says.

[quote=SAAD mehmood;841067]THE BOOK ? QURAN NO BRO QUARAN TEACH US IF U LOVE A HINDU GIRL & U BOTH WANT TO MARRY THEN TEACH GIRL THAT WHAT IS ISLAM IF SHE WANT TO BE A MUSLIM THEN U CAN MARRY & U BOTH R MUSLIM NO



IF SHE DOES'NT ACCEPT THIS TO BE MUSLIM CONDITION THEN U CAN ALSO MARRY BECOUSE ALLAH,BHAGWAN SAB EK HI HAI SAB USSAY ALAG ALG NAAM SE PUKAARTE HAIN.
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my friend i m agree with ur first lines but not with ur last line because QURAN never said that to marry with any one and please about QURAN only say that which u know not more not less . Thanks

Hmm.. I know only about myself.. and that i will say.. Am just 24 and in my last few years my perspective has changed entirely... marriage was like..Oh parents will find someone or I find someone preferably from my own religion and then I marry.. But then sometimes things dont go like that... You never know whom you meet in life.. Sometimes the one you find necessarily need not be from your religion.. Then as long as you are strong enough to face the consequences take the decision.. I have no problem in marrying outside my religion and I dont intend even to ask her to change her believes also.. It may have some incompatibilities in the social spere but what I value most is the love and respect between the couple.. One serious issue though is that sometimes actaually most of the times we may be causing pain to our own parents through the decision.. But may be i am selfish I would rather live my life with the one whom i choose than living with a comprmise formula..

If you believe/have faith in your religion, then your marriage would take place within your religion because that is the religion you would want your children to adopt.
I could give more views, but that should state my answer.

Coming to Saad's view based on the Quran;
1) The Quran states that men are allowed to marry women who are of the (Christianity, Judaism) religions, the People Of The Book. Muslim women are not permitted to commit this act in marriage.
2) The Quran does not give permission to marry someone who is not a Muslim, Christian or Jew for men, and certainly does not give permission to Muslim women to marry a person who is not a Muslim.
But in some circumstances, it is possible to marry someone who is from another religion excluding the People of the Book and Islam, if he/she confesses and accepts the religion of Islam or the People of the Book but preferably Islam.
Women who are from the Christianity and Judaism are not obliged to convert to Islam for the sake of marriage.

I can go on with more views and facts, but I personally think as being a Muslim it is best that your marriage takes place within your religion, this also enables the religious bond between families and between couples.